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Elisabeth Woltman
Relationships can be completed and some times very hurtful.
I do not want to sound or be judgmental but it is a good thing to stop and think before one gets involved.
Some men and women are deceitful and hide the truth extremely well. However the best thing to remember is that if it is too good to be true, it usually is.
You mentioned abortion and I presume that you are already pregnant.
Please do not kill that child. You have been blessed with a wonderful gift and yes it is not easy to bring a child on your own but think of all the joy of seeing the baby after birth, watching the first smile, first squeeze of your hand. Motherhood is so wonderful and yes it is a hard work but I strongly believe that having God in your life will give you strength that you don not even realize is possible.
God is also our refuge and what I do in dark moments, I just close my eyes and pray with all my heart, resting on His assurances, on His never ending, wonderfully unconditional love.
Of course there is always the option of having a child adopted and that is something you might consider. You are blessed of being able to have a child but there are so many that have for different reasons, been denied that experience and your child will be the blessing for them.
As far as the married man is concerned, just end it and if it is a forced sex, seek legal help.
I will be praying for you and for the right decision you will make. Just listen to what the Holy Spirit is telling you.
Remember God will never abandon you. He is your Rock forever faithful
Steve Lobsey
We are all sinners, and God doesn't rank sins as better or worse than others. We all fall short of His standards.
I am a sinner but if I repent of my sins, ask for forgiveness, and give my life to Jesus as my Lord, he will make a way for the sin which separates me from God to be removed, and the same goes for you.