Who am I supposed to choose when put in a situation between my own child or my husband, who is not my son's biological father?
Several issues have arisen between my son and my husband--who is not my son's father--to the point that our home has become broken. In the interest of personal safety, my husband has moved out. I feel trapped in the middle. I don't want to have to choose between one or the other because they both need me. I've had someone pray over my house. What should I do?
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Asked June 27 2019
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Lacy Lowery
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Emily Hairod
I chose my husband.
My husband did not want my 8 year old son from my previous marriage. He said, "I do not want to take care of someone else's kid anymore. You must choose either me or your son.”
I "resisted" a lot. But my marriage started to go worse and worse everyday. My husband could have left me.
So I left my son to his grandparents because his biological father did not want him. It was the hardest decision of my life, but I don't regret it. Husband must always come first.
Now I will have a new kid. God has rewarded me for my correct decision.