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Sadly some define fairness as treating everyone the same, how does that work for hysterectomy? I will never need one!
Some imagine it is about what people deserve. How does that work? Christians use NEED as their guidance. There is no point in trying to help someone who does not NEED help.
Fairness is as useless a concept as equality, as each of us is Unique, Different, Normal and Perfect at being who we are so what is the point in treating two unique people in the same way?
I am ME, I will never be anyone else, if I love me for being me and love my neighbors for being who they are then I am doing as Jesus suggested!