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Vicki, I recommend looking into a book entitled "Deep Relief Now" by Dennis and Jen Clark. That ministry changed my life by explaining how simple it is to get immediate healing of deep anguish and pain. God is present and ready to heal, deliver, and comfort you in such a way that you won't remember what it was like to be hurting anymore. Godspeed!
My husband died ten years ago and I still miss him. I found that there is no quick way to heal. Grief is to be expected, but time helps heal the void. Now, I thank the Lord each day for the time I had with my husband. It was the best years of my life.
I lost my husband 21years ago, and I still miss him every day!!! I know I will always love him, I could never remarry because when he passed my heart went with his!! We were soul mates & best friends!!! I'm looking forward to seeing him in Heaven. We had a great life here & I pray we have a great life together in Heaven together!!
I lost my husband 5 years ago & within 3 1/2 years I lost 1/2 of my family. My mother, my dad & of course my husband. I'm am only child & I have an only child so we have 5 left in our immediate family. I'm lost as I had to move from the home I lived in over 30 years. I can't find a church. I know God will never leave me nor forsake me. I just can't get it together. A long with this I have had 7 major surgeries I have fallen apart. I'm trying but I can't seem to get back.
I know if I pray & stay close to God I will be ok, but it's hard when you are left by yourself. My kids live 40 minutes away they work & grandkids are in college so I don't bother them. I'm thankful what The Lord has done for me. It could be much worse. I'm thankful my parents & husband were Christians & a great example. It's hard to learn how to carry on.
I recently lost my husband in December 2013. I can't imagine myself being married to anyone else. He was my soul mate and every day I think of how our life was together. I know they say it gets easier but seems to me it's worse! HOW can I possibly just "let go"?