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I am the author of the question. Matthew 19:9 does not seem applicable in that neither my wife nor I remarried. We each agree the marriage should not have ended. We’ve forgiven each other and believe by God’s word, He has forgiven us. I was told in that neither remarried, we remain biblically married. Are we? Lastly, we’ve shared our desire to remarry and seeking God’s will for us.