How do you confront someone claiming to be a Christian for several years who does not display the fruit of the Spirit, nor do they show any signs of being spiritually “born again”?
1 Thessalonians 5:11 - 24
ESV - 11 Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing. 12 We ask you, brothers, to respect those who labor among you and are over you in the Lord and admonish you.
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Asked February 18 2025
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Tim Maas
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When confronting someone claiming to be a Christian but not exhibiting the fruit of the Spirit, approach the situation with love, concern, and a focus on scripture, prioritizing a gentle and respectful dialogue, asking open-ended questions to understand their perspective, and offering support to help them grow spiritually rather than making accusations or judgments about their salvation, which ultimately belongs to God alone; if necessary, seek guidance from a trusted spiritual leader.
Key points to remember:
Approach with love and care:
Express your concern for their well-being and desire to see them grow closer to God, not with judgment or condemnation.
Use scripture as a foundation.
Ask open-ended questions.
Focus on positive change:
Instead of dwelling on negative behaviors, encourage them to consider areas where they can actively work towards growing spiritually.
Offer support and accountability.
Express your willingness to walk alongside them, pray with them, and provide support as they seek to live a more Christ-like life.
Ensure your intentions are pure and not driven by a desire to judge or control the other person.
If someone is not receptive to your concerns, respect their decision and pray for them.