Donna Williams Supporter

I believe that this is a common question that most born again believers who are married have. Hebrews 13:4 says, "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge."

I believe that many are alluding to the question: Is it okay to have oral or anal sex? My response is that while these types of sex are pleasurable to the flesh, it is quite possible that in the sight of God, these are carnal and acts of the flesh. They may be considered as unnatural when considering what the body parts were created for, as far as God is concerned. 

My encouragement to you is to seek God and get His heart and mind about this question that you have. I know that it is the will of God that we all know the truth about what is permitted or not permitted by God as it pertains to sexual relations, or anything that may not be a clear directive in the written Word of God!

June 10 2022 • 2 responses • Vote Up • Share • Report

Jack Gutknecht Supporter ABC/DTS graduate, guitar music ministry Baptist church

I'll not try to deal with any sexual aides or sex toys. But one thing is always in order: 

If you want to be happy, healthy, successful, and live longer, give your spouse a kiss before you go to work each day. That’s the conclusion of a study conducted by a group of German physicians and psychologists, in cooperation with insurance companies. According to Dr. Arthur Sazbo, the study found that those who kiss their spouse each morning miss less work because of illness than those who do not. They also have fewer auto accidents on the way to work. They earn 20 to 30 percent more monthly and they live about five years more than those who don’t even give each other a peck on the cheek. 

The reason for this, says Dr. Sazbo, is that the kissers begin the day with a positive attitude. A kiss signifies a sort of seal of approval, offer Sazbo and his colleagues, and they believe, those who don’t experience it, for whatever reason, go out the door feeling not quite right about themselves. Whether you give this study any credence or not, an au revoir kiss every morning can do you no harm. Maybe you can expand the study and write a book: Pucker Up to Grow Rich, Feel Good, and Live Longer. It could be a best-seller.

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June 11 2022 • 2 responses • Vote Up • Share • Report